Blogging about Blogging and My Decluttering Plan

I am blogging because I think I am thinking the thoughts that many of you must be thinking.  We are a sophisticated bunch – us baby boomers.  We are very much alive even though we are aging.  Our bodies remind us that we are no longer twenty but we sure feel like we are twenty.  Only we have life experience and with that, comes wisdom.  I am blogging hoping that I am helping you reflect on where you are on the cycle of life.  I am writing to declutter the clutter in my mind – the past, the present, and the future all jump around inside my brain.

What I never expected was that I would end up on a local tv station talking about my blogs about the clutter.  Until now I did not even realize that the literal clutter that I was blogging about may actually be more about the clutter in my mind.  And maybe the literal clutter is so confusing because it represents a past that may not coincide with the present and probably not with the future.decluttering-1

What I decided is:   I will  try to declutter first by selling my excess stuff but I will hold onto the stuff that may help me remember my life should my memory not serve me well.  Whatever money I make from the sales, I will put into a slush fund and we will hopefully take an extra vacation here and there on it.

Whatever I don’t sell, I may put in a pile and invite my friends to bring some of their stuff and then we can order in and have a “stuff” swap.  I will keep you posted.  If it is a success, I will host an annual swap.  If you are not my friend but like that idea, friend me on Facebook and ask me to invite you!

The rest of the stuff?  I will donate if and when I move into NYC or get too old to stay put!

What to do with all this stuff?

My mother gave her “good” jewelry away after she got her cancer in her mid sixties.  She went onto live another thirty years and went to many more bar-mitzvahs, weddings, and baby showers. And she replaced her “good” jewelry with marcasite pins, necklaces, earrings, bracelets because, yes, she still needed to accessorize!

I would love to give some of my “good jewelry” away but my daughter does not have a home.  She is in an apartment and will move any day now.  I would love to give some of my paintings away.  But my daughter is cramped for space.  My stepchildren cannot take any of my paintings because their mother has created a rivalry and they cannot display my art.  I might start selling them on www.etsy.com or www.ebay.com.  So, please start bidding!!!!

Oh. I forgot.  You are also in your sixties and the last thing you want, is MORE STUFF!!!!!